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What actions will help to make the man happy?

01 January 2018
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  1. Think over what the person needs
  2. What to do with its negative sides?
  3. You thank the man for his actions
  4. Video: 7 ways — to make the man happy

You have already a family and you love each other, but every day notice more and more that your man does not do something, ceased to aspire to something, became more inert and in general some sad.

Of course, you want to make the man happy, to return those strong qualities and that cheerfulness which you saw in him before that influenced also your relations.

At the same time you begin to communicate with it with the purpose to find out the events reason, then to demand, to criticize, "saw", etc.





Some communication which it seems, has to push the man on commission of good acts turns out, but all of you face a reciprocal pressure, resistance or indifference more. What happened? How to make the man happier and to return the former relations in a family?

Think over what the person needs

In love, respect, caress – yes, it is correct. But what else? It is very important to each person to feel that he is necessary to someone! Even it is even more: he needs to understand and see that its acts, thoughts and the ideas cause positive effect in those people who are dear to it. This person is his beloved.

When the man understands that his actions make his soulmate happy then he is happy. At the same time to it come also desire to aspire to something, to be successful, to make to you gifts and to listen to your desires. Happy man is capable of making feats for the sake of the woman!

Think at least once: "And what you how the woman, are ready to make that your man was happy?". Whether you did his life fine and free? Or you tried to change the man under yourself only all the time, criticized him and let know that all his actions do not make any sense? First of all, think what your actions can positively influence the man.

By certain and good way to make the spouse happy is to begin to notice his merits and acts, having ceased to pay attention to negative. That's all.

Begin to thank the man for what he does, even in case at it it turns out not absolutely well, you praise for the shown strong qualities of his personality, you say how he tried and what he is a good fellow that arrived thus.




Learn to see the man in positive light and forget about a gloom. Only do not take in head to feel sorry for the darling as pity to the man does to him only harm, weakening its strong qualities.

What to do with its negative sides?

And as if you wanted that you were notified on it? Probably, the most acceptable way will be to tell the person about what is considered his weaknesses only. Offer it the vision and wishes, but do not insist on implementation of your words. Allow the man most to solve, to work on own shortcomings or not.

From you honesty and patience is only required – tell that you wanted and wait. In this case it is necessary to get rid of various tretirovaniye methods of the man. Forget that there are methods of criticism, scandal, a quarrel, shouts, offenses and other. Leave these ways of a manipulation behind a board of your family ship, all of them it is equal to you never helped and not be helped any more.

That the man was happy, save him from daily conflict situations. "How so? – some women will does not know. — How it is possible to induce to do still it something if not to shout?". And you present yourself on its place. As if you felt if you on each action heard only discontent and morals?

You would be happy if you understood that any your act will cause only negative reaction in your spouse? You for certain would feel unnecessary and helpless. You would ask a question: "Well to make it at last to please this man?".

By the way, this question is very conformable with men's which can often be heard in the company of his colleagues and friends: "Well still it is necessary for this woman?". As you think, there would be such question at the happy person. Of course, no.

So, put yourself to the place of the man. Present how all your actions encounter daily criticism and discontent from the man. As if you felt? Here also your man feels now if you behave similarly.

You thank the man for his actions

Become more womanly, begin to admire the man. Let it know that it is necessary to you, and its acts are appreciated. Then you will notice how at your husband eyes with happiness will be lit as he will try to do all that you approve.

You will give it chance to make all he receives the treasured word "Thanks!" for, but not the next criticism. Begin to notice any trifle which it does for the sake of your family. Even if so far at it not absolutely it turns out, your approval will only give it force to improve the skill.

At the same time other people can begin to dissuade you from such noble acts concerning the husband. Like, as it is possible to improve the man in such a way? But you think and whether those people in the matrimonial relations which tell you it are happy? If does not set their personal example to happy harmony in a family, then why to you to listen to about what they do not know!

Only those people who reached family happiness and happiness of each certain family member can give to you really right advice on improvement. However, if advise you to resort to "repressive" methods while they are not happy with the family or the spouses, you should not pay attention to them – they are not an example for imitation.

Live and try the methods, only then to you true happiness will open, and you will be able to become really the desired woman and to make the man happy!

Video: 7 ways — to make the man happy

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