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Whether it is necessary having rummaged in the relations - all "pluses and minuses"?

01 January 2018
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  1. Why couple can be solved on a pause in the relations?
  2. "Pluses and minuses" temporary parting
  3. Alternative methods to improve the relations
  4. Video: having rummaged in the relations

Forming of the strong, long and harmonious relations — business quite difficult. Even in the presence of strong mutual feelings between lovers there can be quarrels, dismantling, showdowns from time to time.

Nevertheless, many couples safely overcome all crisis moments arising on their way. But happens and so that the relations reach a deadlock, and it seems that the temporary break in the relations which will help the man and the woman to understand the feelings and the available problems can become the only exit from it.




It is temporary one of partners to whom he becomes unbearable suggests to leave usually to suffer the become frequent conflicts. And the second partner can agree with this offer, and can reject indignantly it, having counted absolutely unacceptable in this situation.

Why couple can be solved on a pause in the relations?

Frequent quarrels
The constant conflicts take away many sincere forces, devastate and exhaust, but worst of all the fact that they kill mutual feelings and lead to the fact that the love passes, gradually turning into hatred and hostility.
Sexual satiation
If between the man and the woman there are no strong feelings, and the main thing on what their relations keep, it is sex, then sooner or later there is a sexual satiation with each other which can develop into mutual indifference and even disgust.
Subconscious desire to break off the relations
Quite often it happens that one of partners wants to stop the relations, but is afraid to tell about it directly. In that case, the proposal on a break made them in the relations it is possible to consider veiled to leave a hint.

Family psychologists consider that a timeout — not the best method for rescue of the collapsing relations. More likely, it not the solution of problems, and the flight from them caused by inability to cope with them. Therefore temporary parting means the end for very many couples to the relations. But, nevertheless, the break in the relations has both "minuses", and "pluses".

"Pluses and minuses" temporary parting

"Pluses":

An opportunity to check feelings





Very often exactly thanks to temporary separation the man and the woman realize that they are dear each other and that do not think of the existence separately. But happens and so that the termination of communication causes in both partners only feeling of joyful simplification. An opportunity to calm down and consider a situation The raging emotions, as a rule, prevent to perceive adequately the events, and the most right and correct decisions are made thanks to the logical analysis and long considering. Can happen that both partners, having had a rest from skirmishes and quarrels, will understand that both are guilty, and will manage to think up compromise way of solving the problem. An opportunity to miss If the man and the woman, having temporarily left, begin to miss one after another is a sure sign of the fact that not all is lost and the relations it is possible to save.

"Minuses":

Possibility of treason
If one of partners apprehends a temporary pause in the relations as an occasion to feel free and "to have a really good time", flirting to the right and on the left, then hardly it will help to save the relations from crash.
Aggravation of a problem
The proposal of one of partners to solve the collected problems by means of temporary parting can cause offense and bewilderment in the second partner that will even more complicate the relations.
 "Out of sight, out of mind"
If between the man and the woman there is no strong mutual attachment or if both partners do not want first to show an initiative again to be together, having rummaged in their relations can drag on too for a long time and to become the end of a love story.

Alternative methods to improve the relations

As we see, temporary separation — not the most suitable and quite risky method of improvement of mutual feelings. Therefore if the man and the woman really value with each other, to them to improve the relations, it will be more correct to use alternative methods.

Consultation at the psychologist
The skilled psychologist will be able not only to establish the hidden reasons because of which lovers clash, but also will make recommendations by means of which couple will be able to find the way out of the situation.
Straight talk
Very often inability of both partners to solve problems by means of constructive dialogue is the reason of quarrels in the relations. If the man and the woman decide on straight talk and will try to come to consensus, then and having rummaged in the relations it can not be necessary.
Work on
Both are, as a rule, guilty of the conflict. Therefore if lovers are ready to work on the mistakes and to adapt the friend to the friend, then they have a chance not only to save the relations, but also it is essential to improve their quality.
Love
If the man and the woman really love each other, then they need definitely no breaks in the relations as there is no such problem which could not be overcome by means of love!

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