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5 Ways to get rid of an inferiority complex

01 January 2018
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  1. How to define whether the person is diffident?
  2. Main methods of fight
  3. Video: how to raise a self-assessment?

All of us want to be happy and successful, but, unfortunately, not at all it turns out. Why one people try to obtain in life of all they dream of, and others are chronically not lucky?

Psychologists were interested in this question, and they conducted sociological researches on the basis of which they came to an interesting conclusion: how the person, but if he has an inferiority complex, then its chances to reach big career heights or happy in private life to be very small was beautiful, clever and talented.

As it turned out, the main difference of the famous and successful people from losers not that they it is cleverer or more beautiful, and that they are sure of themselves, know the own worth and do not suffer from an inferiority complex!





So as we see, this psychological problem — not a so harmless thing, but a serious obstacle on the way to vital achievements. Therefore it is necessary to take all measures what to get rid of an inferiority complex once and for all!

However, not all people realize that they are the victims of own complexes.

How to define whether the person is diffident?

Rejection of the appearance
The diffident person, usually, does not consider himself attractive externally therefore it is sure that more or less nice representative of an opposite sex also will not look at it and consequently, it is even possible not to do attempts to someone to be pleasant. The victim of an inferiority complex, considering itself in a mirror, notices even the most insignificant shortcomings of own appearance, but in an emphasis does not see advantages therefore even at quite good external data it seems to itself nearly the freak. As a rule, diffident women and men extremely seldom show an initiative in the personal relations, and therefore and cannot brag of progress in private life.
Uncertainty in the forces
The person suffering from an inferiority complex practically never tries to move forward in collective and is always content with the second, and even third roles as it is firmly convinced that he all the same will not be able to achieve anything. The inferiority complex forces the person to remain in the shadow all the time because of fear to fail business, not to meet someone's expectations and to be dishonored before colleagues. Even if the diffident person has any outstanding talents, he does not attach them significance as it is sure that around it is full of people who are much more talented than it.





Problems in the relations with people In the interpersonal relations the people suffering from complexes are not able to stand for themselves and often act as the victim. Instead of protecting the rights, they justify themselves or engaged in self-flagellation. However, sometimes diffident people are very conflict and irreconcilable as it seems to them that people around do not love them and want to offend. Lack of the purposes in life The diffident person does not wait for anything good from life and it programs himself on failure in advance. Even if the victim of complexes by some miracle achieves success, then, as a rule, quickly loses the won positions.

From where the inferiority complex undertakes? The majority of similar problems are from the childhood. It is noticed that most often this problem occurs at people whom parents in the childhood often criticized, but very seldom praised. To get rid of an inferiority complex not really easily, but, at desire, quite perhaps!

Main methods of fight

Love to — the main weapon against any complexes
We forgive to our favourite people their shortcomings and features of character, so why and ourselves liked not to forgive own shortcomings? And, it is necessary to love himself not for some achievements, and contrary to everything!
To respect in itself the personality
Self-esteem — an internal core of the person without which it will never be able to get rid of an inferiority complex and to achieve even the slightest success. The self-esteem cannot be lost under no circumstances. The person who does not respect himself, as a result, will never be respected by people around!
To overcome in itself fear of failure
Failures happen at all, and reaction to failure distinguishes the successful person from the loser. It is noticed that the loser, usually, blames himself for failure, including it the proof of own otioseness whereas self-assured people of an obstacle and failure are only provoked, forcing to move with even big persistence to the purpose.
To learn to rejoice even to the most insignificant progress and achievements
In fight against an inferiority complex, it is desirable to praise more often himself and to encourage. Great success always begins with small and to reach the top step, it is necessary to step into lower at first.
To believe in itself and the success
It is necessary to notice that the belief in success is impossible without belief in own forces. Confidence is that everything will be good, helps with process of disposal of an inferiority complex. And sooner or later the person achieves goals even contrary to circumstances. The law of psychology says: what the person waits from life for, he, eventually, also receives from it!

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