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How to forget the man and to stop thinking about him?

01 January 2018
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  1. Time heals
  2. Councils of psychologists
  3. Video: how to forget the man after parting?

Even the most beautiful, sexy and successful women sometimes have love disappointments when there is a wish to forget the man once and for all. Certainly, what was the parting reason with the beloved and whoever was an initiator of a gap - it is always the unpleasant and painful moment which should be able to be passed correctly.

But especially offensively happens when the relations stop at the initiative of the man. The main thing in such situation — to get it together, to collect will in a fist and not to run after the leaving train.

If the woman does not restrain, will begin to be humiliated before the man, to call, pursue, tearfully begging him to return, then subsequently can begin to hate for it and him and herself. Not for nothing there is a saying: "It is not terrible to lose the man — terribly to lose itself". Therefore how it was sick, the woman has to show self-esteem and try to get rid the man — to these she will keep the advantage in the opinion of "former" and even if he will not love it any more, then it will be obligatory to respect.





Time heals

At first to overcome thoughts of the beloved and it will be heavy to forget him. As a rule, the sharpest and painful period after parting — the first two-three months. At the initial stage quite not easy to realize that the end is put to the relations. The woman is not abandoned by hope that the man will come round, will ask forgiveness and will return again...

But the more passes time, the woman understands more clearly that you will not return the lost relations and that it is necessary to live further, with hope that the new love will come to life. But all the matter is that, as a rule, the new love comes only when heart is free, and the old relations were safely erased from memory.

Councils of psychologists

But how to open itself for the new relations, having forgotten the beloved? In such situation psychologists recommend to adhere to several councils.

To splash out emotions
If to soul it is sick, it is not necessary to keep this pain in itself at all. Not splashed out negative experiences work is destructive on mentality and on health! The quicker the woman will have a good cry and will be uttered on a shoulder at the beloved girlfriend — the quicker she will forget the man and it will become easier for her. And when the first flow of emotions will leave, all occurred situation can seem not such and tragic.





To find positive sides in the event Practically in any situation there are both negative, and positive sides. Perhaps, having recovered and having calmed down, the woman will understand that she has to not to cry, and rejoice that was not lost by her at all, and on the contrary got — rest, freedom, independence, new vital opportunities, etc. To remember bad qualities and acts of "former"

As it is paradoxical when people leave, in their memory the best and romantic moments connected with "former" why sincere sufferings even more are aggravated begin to be scrolled. Whereas actually everything was not so good — people from scratch do not leave!

One of the best ways to cool the feelings to the man is to write out all his shortcomings and "sins" on a paper leaflet, and then to attach this leaflet on a foreground that caught sight more often. Then, at a view of a leaflet, will recur those events, memories of which will allow to be glad sincerely to the fact that the unsuccessful relations remained in the past, to the memory.

To understand that there are no irreplaceable people It is possible to force to forget about the man even in case he was ideal to such an extent, as to carp there is nothing. Not the fact that still the best man will not occur in the path of the woman: more beautiful, more generous, more well-mannered, more devoted, more careful, more decent, more loving and more favourite. And at all — there are no limits to perfection! So it is necessary to look forward, but not back, to dream of the future, but not to be sorry about the past! To be engaged in the private life The new relations will help to forget the man. As soon as the woman begins to pay attention to the nice men surrounding her and will catch on herself at least one delighted look then she will understand that life is fine and that the happiest minutes — ahead. The main thing — not to go in cycles in the experiences and not to exhaust itself heart-breaking memories of what cannot be returned. And whether it is worth returning when around there are a lot of handsome and attractive men? To go to work or to think up to itself a new hobby Eventually, life of the woman consists not only of the relations with the beloved. In life there is a lot of all interesting — movies which should be watched, books which should be read, the cities which it would be interesting to visit. All this can not only distract from painful memories and delete the man from heart, but also bring the mass of interesting impressions. To watch itself If the woman watches the appearance and at any time faultlessly looks, then it always in great mood and in an environment of admirers. And time so to forget the man who was in her life once and it will be much simpler to meet new love. So, life goes on, and all the best still ahead!

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