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Love or love - how to understand whether you love the person?

03 January 2018
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  1. Main signs of love
  2. Main signs of love
  3. Video: distinctions between love and love?

Each person dreams to feel true love as without this component it is impossible to learn true happiness. No vital benefits — either money, or glory, or the high social status can replace love. Therefore, we seek to find true love, we try to understand whether we love the person with whom we were brought together by destiny, we are ready to endow for the sake of love very much.

So why quite often it happens so what having fallen in love and having sweethearted darling, we, after a while, suddenly with bitterness realize what our feelings passed and what the one who seemed to us loveliest on light still yesterday does not cause today in us anything, except indifference any more? Why one people can keep the love even at distance and carry by it in many years, and at others the love comes to an end, having hardly managed to arise?





Actually the reason that there is a difference between love and love. These two concepts, as different sides of the same coin. Love — pleasant, but fleeting feeling which, on observation of psychologists, lasts at most three-four years though can end and much earlier. The love, unlike love, is not subject to time, and over the years, as a rule, only becomes stronger.

To distinguish love from love happens very not easy as between them is much in common. Both the love, and love generate desire to possess darling and bring joy from communication with it. But, nevertheless, to understand whether you love the person, it is possible to dig more deeply and to see with the naked eye that between love and love there are many obvious differences. The most considerable difference is that the person in love first of all is aimed at receiving pleasure and pleasure from the love relations, and the loving person is ready to give the one whom loves — care, heat and love, without demanding anything at the same time in exchange.

The love gives, love wants to receive — and in it their basic difference. Therefore not each person whereas love — a commonplace is capable of love. Only the one who is capable of devotion and of self-sacrifice for the sake of the partner is able to love. An egocentrism and love — things incompatible therefore the egocentric person can fall in love but fall in love — hardly. Both the rivers begin with small streamlets, and the true love can begin with love. But love not always passes into love. Let's consider in more detail signs of love and signs of love.




Main signs of love

Big intensity of emotions
The person in love, especially at the beginning of love, is in a condition of euphoria which something is similar to drug intoxication. Therefore at this stage it is very heavy to define whether you love the person. Under the influence of love people quite often lose a dream and appetite, become excited and unbalanced. The person in love, depending on that, successfully or not really his relations with darling develop, or feels at pleasure top, or endures all torments of hell.
Idealization
The person in love not in forces to give an objective assessment to qualities of character of an object of love. When we are in love with someone, it seems to us the most beautiful, the most irresistible, the cleverest, the kindest, the most noble, very best, but it we in an emphasis do not notice shortcomings even then when they are obvious — from here and all disappointments which are brought to us by love.
Jealousy
Lovers are selfish and want that darling belonged only to them. Undivided love brings us terrible anguish and sufferings. When that with whom we are in love does not reciprocate to us and gives the sympathy to someone to another, we so are jealous and we worry that are sometimes ready to kill both him, and themselves.
The overestimated expectations
The person in love usually thinks thus: I love you, therefore, you have to me: to reciprocate, kindly to me to treat and meet all my expectations. When that with whom we are in love for some reason or other does not meet our expectations, it is not such kind and noble, not such true and devoted, not such clever and talented as seemed to us at the beginning of the relations, we, as a rule, have feeling of deep disappointment, indignation and surprise: well as we could be mistaken so?
Variability and instability of feelings
"From love to hatred — one step" — it is told not about love, namely about love. Very often love on which do not reciprocate turns into hatred, offense and embitternment.

Main signs of love

Invariance
No external circumstances can affect true love, unlike love. Even if the one whom we really love is far from perfect, we accept it it what it is, and we love, despite everything.
Sacrifice
The loving person is ready to offer much for the sake of the one whom loves, and not in order that to receive something in exchange but because has moral satisfaction when he sees darling happy.
The true love unfortunate does not happen
Love, even if it undivided is always an incentive for self-improvement, for spiritual development, for work on itself. We have to be grateful to darling already for the fact that we thanks to him had sublime and fine feeling which is called LYUBOV.

As we see, to understand whether we love the person really or feelings to it only easy love it is not difficult at all. The love and love differ very strongly from each other therefore it is possible to call them antonyms. When the person makes a declaration of love, he most often tests love as speak about love not words, but acts.

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