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How to reconcile with the beloved (woman)?

03 January 2018
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  1. What to do if there was a quarrel?
  2. Four effective ways of reconciliation
  3. Video: how to reconcile after the quarrel?

Any, even the most successful and strong relations, do not happen without quarrels and quarrels! Why the people loving each other quarrel? For various reasons...

Sometimes quarrels arise because of carelessly told rough word, sometimes they are provoked by emotional fieriness of one of partners, and sometimes partners just lack wisdom to state each other the collected claims in the most tactful form.

Alas, known saying: "The falling out of lovers is the renewal of love" is repaid not in all cases. Sometimes quarrels happen small and quickly fade by itself. But often the conflict leads to mutual alienation and even to the communication termination. In that case it is necessary to reconcile with the beloved or the woman as soon as possible that then it was not necessary to break too thick wall.





Even if couple continues to love each other and does not wish to leave, having quarreled, very often nobody wants to go the first for reconciliation, and everyone waits when the first step is taken by the partner. And it is possible to wait long!

Unfortunately, one of the most frequent reasons of the termination of the love relations is an arrogance through which both partners cannot cross. Therefore, quite often people forever leave, loving each other.

What to do if there was a quarrel?

How will reconcile with darling and not to allow a final gap? Of course, it is the best of all not to bring the matter to the conflict, but if it already took place also at all the relations with the beloved or the woman appeared under the threat, try to make the following:

  • First of all try to calm down and appease the bursting forth emotions. Offense and anger — not the best advisers, and under their influence it is just impossible to think objectively and the more so to try to be reconciled with the man, or the woman.
  • When emotions settle, abstract from a situation and try to see it as if from outside, not prejudicedly. It will help you to understand the reasons of a quarrel and to understand who is right and who is guilty. Though, in most cases, both parties are guilty of the conflict!
  • Frankly answer a question: you want reconciliation with darling or not? It is simple to answer this question. If at the thought of a final rupture of the relations you feel grief and despair, means it is necessary to look for ways to reconciliation. If you realize that are sincerely ready not to see this person as early as years ten, so perhaps, your relations sputtered out, and the quarrel was not accident, but quite logical regularity.





If you precisely for yourself decided that your partner means to you much, and you by all means want to reconcile with him even if for the sake of it it is necessary to renounce pride or the principles, business means it was necessary for small — to find the most suitable way to reconciliation.

Here there can also be a problem: there is a wish to reconcile very much, but how to make it without prejudice to own vanity and with a guarantee that the partner will make a reciprocal step?

To reconcile the easiest, of course, that who lives under the same roof. Sometimes happens enough to meet eyes darling and to smile each other to understand that an incident is exhausted. It is necessary far more difficult those who have no place to be crossed with the beloved or the beloved that reconciliation happened as if by itself and looked casual.

But desperate situations, as we know, do not happen!

Four effective ways of reconciliation

There are several certain ways to reconcile with the man or the woman, and you can quite choose for yourself one of them:

To write SMS
The message sent by you from the mobile phone can be very short and laconic, for example, it is possible to send only one word: "I miss!" — and darling everything will understand and will surely take a reciprocal step to you towards.
To call on mobile
This way is good in case of a serious quarrel when already you do not get off with one SMS. But it is not necessary to begin to sort out the relations by phone at all, these can only spoil everything — eventually one of you can become angry and hang up. Agree with darling about a meeting under a pretext better that you need to talk about much. And when you will meet then you will tell everything that needs to be told.
To happen on the street or at mutual friends
If pride does not allow to write to you SMS or to call, means it is necessary to arrange a "casual" meeting that to you and your partner nothing remained how to greet and begin dialogue. The main thing, do not forget to smile at a meeting!
To use mediation of friends
If your conflict came so far that you are not sure whether darling will want to answer your call and to talk at a meeting, try to use mediation of the general friends ready to act as the reconciling Kot Leopold. But address only those friends to whom completely you trust, and otherwise, as if it did not become even worse!

If your man (or the woman dear to heart), as well as you, dreams to reconcile, then one of these ways surely has to result in desirable result. But if darling does not react to your SMS, does not answer calls, and at a meeting turns away or indifferently nods, do not try to invent new ways of reconciliation, and ask yourself a question better: and whether he wants to continue your relations, and whether you should trying to punch the head a concrete wall?

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