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Why darlings leave?

03 January 2018
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  1. What motives for a rupture of the relations?
  2. How to behave when parting?
  3. Video: life after parting

The love relations — the most important aspect of life for each of us. Therefore we, as a rule, value the love and are ready to go to a lot of things to keep it.

But, unfortunately, quite often it happens so that people leave because of inevitability as the relations with darling reach a deadlock and do not make sense to proceed more.

As shows life, only one love for the strong relations is not enough. The love relations are very many-sided and if any important side of the relations is far from perfect, there can be problems.

What motives for a rupture of the relations?






Most often darlings leave for the following reasons:

Dissimilarity of characters
Perhaps, it is the most common and considerable cause because of which the love relations fall. If in love there are absolutely different people, with the different level of culture and different outlook, then no mutual passion will be able to compensate lack of common interests and mutual understanding.
Frequent conflicts
If the loving couple often clashes, this obvious certificate that at least one of partners has difficult, unaccomodating character. In principle, the conflicts can periodically arise even in the happiest and safe couples. But if the conflict becomes a permanent background of the relations then no nerves long will sustain and therefore the gap is inevitable.
Treason of one of partners
Not each person is capable to forgive treason, and this one of the frequent reasons why people leave. For very many, even casual treason of the partner is an unambiguous end to the relations. But if someone is also ready to forgive, for the sake of preservation of the relations, to the partner single treason, then to suffer constant unfaithfulness any in the slightest degree the person respecting himself will not become not under what circumstances.
Force of circumstances
Happens and so that objective circumstances against which, as they say, you will not trample prevent to be together to two loving hearts. For example, he and she live in the different countries and do not want to change the residence, or it and at it already has families which you will not offer even for the sake of great love...
Lack of reciprocity
When one of partners loves, and the second only allows to love himself is not full-fledged relations, but a game in one gate which bothers both sooner or later and leads to parting of people.





The love was, but passed Alas, even the strongest passion can completely pass as though it never also was. Over the heart the person is not always imperious and therefore in such situations it is not necessary to look for guilty, and it is better to leave. Addictions Presence at one of partners of addictions (alcoholism, drug addiction, game dependence and др). It is almost impossible to build up the normal relationship with the addict or the chronic alcoholic even if madly you love it.

It is not as simple to leave the one whom you love as can seem. Parting with darling, than it would not be provoked, is always followed by mental anguish and gives a cardiac wound which long does not heal. But, nevertheless, each person has a choice: it is beautiful to disperse, having kept the best memories of darling, or to leave abuse and scandals after which in soul for a long time there is an unpleasant, nasty deposit.

How to behave when parting?

Here several councils for those who are in process of parting with darling:

If initiator of parting your partner
  • First of all, calm down. Include mind and appease the raged emotions — in a quiet state you have much more chances to spend themselves correctly, wisely and not to do nonsenses!
  • Be not humiliated. If your partner made the firm decision to break off the relations, then you need only — to reconcile and release one it. Do not try to hold the partner about yourself by means of threats, blackmail or plaintive hysterics at all if do not want that he began to hate or despise you! If let darling go in peace — there is a chance that it will think again and will return back. If you go into hysterics, row and be humiliated — will escape, sparkling heels, and will begin to remember you as a bad dream.
  • Keep from damnations and insults. Even if parting with darling hurts you - it is not an occasion to fall to abuse, damnations and insults to the partner. Nine of ten that when you calm down, you will regret about the fieriness.
If the initiator of parting — you
  • Do not allow to manipulate yourself. It is quite possible that you should resist to emotional and psychological pressure from the former partner. Trying to return you, he can begin to press on pity, to appeal to your conscience. But if you are precisely sure that you do not love any more and do not want to be together, then leave — it will be so better also for you, and the partner.
  • Do not wear the partner before your mutual friends and do not throw at him mud — you will humiliate with it not so much the partner how many yourself! People around can have a natural question: how you could be close to this person if he is such bad?
  • Try to leave friends — it will allow you to keep good relations in the future, or at least warm memoirs about each other. Friendship — one of love forms. You loved and were happy — already only for it it is worth thanking both the lucky stars, and the former darling!

Video: life after parting

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