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5 The reasons why there passes the love

03 January 2018
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  1. Because of what the love vanishes into thin air?
  2. What to do that fire of love did not run low?
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When to the person the great mutual love comes, he does not want even to allow thoughts that over time the love will pass. The mutual love is the base on which personal happiness of any person is under construction. But, unfortunately, not all loving couples manage, having carried by love through years, to avoid cooling and alienation.

Often it happens so that the man and the woman who married on great love become each other nearly enemies. But at the same time continue to live together, keeping visibility of the relations for the sake of the general children or for any reason. Such couples can only sympathize...





What turns out, the love surely passes over time? Of course, so it is wrong to think! The love can be kept! And the proof to they are elderly couples which, having lived together many happy years, all also gently love each other.

So why one lovers manage to keep the feelings, and another is not present? Lovers who, living with each other, make serious and sometimes fatal mistakes are guilty that the relations are left by love, as a rule.

Because of what the love vanishes into thin air?

Mutual offenses
To live for many years joint life and never to quarrel — so does not happen. Therefore it is very important that lovers were able to sort out correctly the relations — without mutual insults, reproaches and claims. Any problem arising in the relations can be solved not by means of the conflict, and by means of a quiet and constructive conversation which will help the man and the woman to find the way out accepted for both. If, at each showdown, lovers become personal, do not mince words and compete who whom will more painfully offend, then their love will disappear very quickly, without having left also a mark.
Unfaithfulness
Nothing so destroys love as treason. What justifications would not be found to himself by the man and the woman, changing each other — treason is always treachery. If people really love each other, at them is not present and there cannot be a good motive to seek sex elsewhere. Of course, for the sake of preservation of the relations it is possible to forgive treason of the husband, in rare instances betrayal of the wife, but to forget — never!
Egoism





Matrimonial life always assumes the mutual voluntary victim and devotion. The man and the woman, living together, give each other time, forces, care, feelings. But there are people who do not want to endow anything for the sake of darling, but impose to him the overestimated requirements and claims. Such people are called egoists. The love passes in life of egoists, without having managed to get stronger. Selfish people in principle are not capable to keep love in the relations as never make concessions, always think only of themselves, of the benefit, comfort and a cosiness, and darling try to arrange under themselves, caring for his desires and interests a little. Inability to appreciate the relations Many people have feature quickly to get used to all good and to take it for granted therefore they, after several happy years of marriage, cease to appreciate the happiness, and near darling to them becomes boring and uninteresting. These people mistakenly take sharpness of feelings and intensity of emotions for love and when the relations are left by passion, they consider that there passed the love, and direct on searches of the new relations. But the passion, unlike love, never happens eternal — it should be understood! Lack of romanticism Many consider that the love destroys life. That life did not kill love, in the relations of the man and woman romanticism surely has to remain. The love needs romanticism in the same way as the delicate flower needs moisture. Many married couples, after several years of marriage, even forget to congratulate each other on holidays, not to mention romantic evenings by candlelight or moonlight walks. The relations of such couples come down to the joint solution of household problems and habitual execution of a conjugal duty.

As we see, joint life conceals in itself many underwater reeves against which the love boat can crash. But if the man and the woman value the relations and are ready for everything if only to preserve love, then they can quite live up to a diamond wedding gently loving each other!

What to do that fire of love did not run low?

For the sake of preservation of freshness and sharpness of mutual feelings as long as possible, family psychologists advise to build the relations on the principles:

Mutual respect
Only respecting desires and interests each other, the man and the woman can avoid the serious conflicts, is destructive influencing the relations.
Mutual aid and support
Life does not happen without problems and tests therefore the spouses wishing to keep love have to be ready to love each other not only in joy, but also in a trouble.
Mutual trust
The people loving each other have to trust one another. Suspiciousness, unreasonable jealousy and mistrust can destroy even the strongest relations in which at first there will pass the love, and then and mutual respect.

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